Men fall in love with women they perceive as dangerous.
I say dangerous because these women are wanted by others, are accustomed to being hit on, are more likely to have roving eyes themselves.
As much as they may feign attraction to smarts, sincerity, substance: it’s the bonfire that brings on the love.
Men want to spot shooting stars, climb on for the ride and then make that tantalizing female their own.
With women, love can start with a compelling conversation. With men there needs to be lighter fluid and a match.